It’s Here! My Birthday! I’m 39 today and I feel like I should be feeling all the feelings. You know the ones. Those big ones. The I’m officially 365 days away from being 40. Whoa! The who am I, where am I in life, what do I want from life kinda feelings. The adult feelings. Yet instead all I keep thinking is: Happy Birthday To Me!
Happy Birthday To Me!
Yup! I woke up basically singing it in my head! It’s my Birthday! I’m 39 and I’m super happy. I’m happy with who I am as a Woman, Wife, Mother and Friend. I’ve grown over the past 39 years. I’ve found my way through the awkward years, made my way past my rebellion and finally found comfort in my nerdy, quirky and at times wonky personality. I’m me. It took nearly the full 39 years (okay minus those few where I was just drooling, crawling and learning how to talk) to get here but I made it. So why not sing a bit of Happy Birthday To Me?
This Is Me . . .
This is me. Getting to a place where I’m not only okay with who I am but I like that person – it hasn’t been easy. I think becoming a mom helped me become comfortable in my own skin. My kids look to me for provision, protection, support and encouragement. How could I give those things to them when I lived most of my life denying them from myself? Being a teen mom forced me to not only grow up but grow into who I wanted to be as a mother. For that I am grateful. On day one of my 39th year I am grateful for every struggle, difficulty, set back and win I’ve had. Why? It’s simple. Without all the bad and the lessons I learned I wouldn’t be the person I am today. Today – the first day of my 39th year. This is me. I like her. I love her. I am her.
Then Comes 40 . . .
Next year I turn 40. That’s kind of a biggie when it comes to birthdays – from what I hear. So what will I do to celebrate? I honestly have no clue. Maybe next year I’ll have a few of those big thoughts. Who knows? This year? This year I’m simply enjoying the blessing that is my life, sipping on my coffee and singing in my head: Happy Birthday To Me!
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43 thoughts on “Happy Birthday To Me!”
Happy birthday Mommy! They say life starts at 40 so have a blast!
Thanks so much!! Well I guess that’s something to look forward to 😉
I’m right there with you! I’m in my last year of my 30’s and I’m ready for it!
Yay Rachel!! Isn’t it so empowering…?
Have a great birthday and year. And you do not look 39. #melanin
Thanks so much Tyra!! Aww – thank you 😉
Wishing you all the best this year and forever!!
xoxo
Thanks o much my friend! <3
Happy Birthday! Hope it was awesome you look amazing.
Thanks Lisa!! It was a great day . . . awww – thank you so much! 😀
Belated Happy Birth day hope you had a blast. Age is just a number well that I always tell myself. But your still looks young so cheers.
Thanks so much Farrah!! I had a great day. You’re so right! Thank you and thanks for coming by. . .
Oh wow! I had no idea you were in your late 30s. You look young girl! Wishing you a happy belated birthday and here’s to many more!
Thanks Marielle – I will take that as a compliment and hope it lasts for years to come 😀 Thank you so much and thanks for coming by!
Happy Belated Birthday to you! Hope you enjoyed your special day.
Thank you so much!!
Oh well I love that hair of yours. You look so young at 40… what’s the secret? Seeing that beautiful smile reveals you’re a happy and strong person. Adding up, as a mom. Belated happy birthday.
Wow! Thanks so much Margarette! I appreciate that 😉 Secret? I have no idea but I hope it lasts for years to come! LOL . . . thank you – you are simply making my day today! Thanks so much and thanks for coming by!
Happy belated birthday! I hope it was wonderful! It’s awesome to be able to enjoy the simple things on your birthday and to just be happy and thankful for another year! All the best!
Thanks so much Mary!! It was so relaxing.. just like I like it 😀
Happy belated! leo season!! Wishing you an amazing year
Thanks Chrystal!! Yes, August Babies Rock 😀 Thanks again . . .
Happy belated birthday to you! You look like 10 years younger. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you! Well…you just made MY day 😀 Thanks so much!
Happy Happy Birthday to you! Such a blessing to celebrate birthdays! You’re now on level 39!! Go, girl!! I love your smile! 😀
Thanks Kate!! I know . . . it’s so crazy! Thanks so much 😀
Happy Birthday Beautiful! It sounds like you are right where you need to be. I’m so pressed to turn 40, I have no idea why. I was this way when I turned 30 and 35.
Enjoy your last 365 days of your 30’s.
Thanks Mimi!! I truly believe I am and I’m enjoying it fully. Hahaha – I’m kinda excited about it too I must say. I guess we’ll know why when we get there 😀 Thanks so much!!
Happy 39th! You look great for your age. I can see all the happiness in your genuine smile. I like your affirmation at the end of this post. That should be everyone’s daily mantra! Wishing you all the best!
Thanks Annmarie! Whoa – that’s an awesome Birthday Gift right there.. 😀 You rock!
Omg happpyyy birtthhdaaayyyy! You have the prettiest smile 🙂 Hope you had an awesome day!
Thank You SO Much!! 😉
Happy, happy, HAPPY birthday!! You look incredible! I hope you have the best day! 🙂
Thanks Jasmine!! I truly appreciate it. My day was awesome 😀
Happy Birthday! I am one of the every year needs to be celebrated. I’ll be happy to welcome you to the 40 and older club. It’s lovely 🙂
Thanks Leslie!! I know you are and I love following along with your celebration 😀 It’s so fun!! Hahaha.. thanks!
I love your attitude about turning 39! You are so right, you earned it! Being a teen mom would have to be hard, but bravo to you for making your life great. Happy Birthday!
Thanks Crystal!! It wasn’t easy but it was so worth it. Thanks again and thanks for coming by!
Happy Happy Birthday. Rock every moment of it!
Thanks Patricia!! I plan on making every single moment count to the fullest!
Happy Birthday my fellow Leo! I can feel all the “feel goods” in your post! You have a lot to be proud of and happy for! Trust me…40 doesn’t change anything except for with your body. Lol…seriously as you get into your 40s your body goes through changes. Not to scare you are anything so don’t worry about it. Enjoy your day, your month, your year! It’s all about you right now and I will celebrate with you in spirit and through social media! Kiss Kiss Hug Hug! 🙂
Hey there!! Thanks so much!! I love that ‘the goods’ are catchy 😀 I am definitely blessed. Oh No! I don’t want the physical changes..they make me nervous…LOL Hopefully they will be minimal and easy to deal with – hopefully 😉 Thanks so much and thanks for coming by Lowanda! Always great to see you <3