Have you ever had so much to say you can barely say anything? That’s how I’ve been with my writing lately. I’ve had so much happening that I needed to write but for whatever reason I just couldn’t get it – well – right. So today I locked myself in my bedroom and said “Self, Let’s Write.” Whether I get it right or wrong I need to get it out.
For the past couple of weeks I have had moments nearly everyday where I kept thinking this is a post for sure. I need to write this down. This needs to be shared. I need a release. Still instead of writing it just thought about writing. Every time I tried to sit down and put fingers to keyboard something else ‘needed‘ to be done: breakfast, lunch dinner, cleaning… dance, karate, basketball, cheerleading oh and my most dreaded chore – laundry! With all of life happening writing simply wasn’t.
So here I lay now with my notes app and my phone in the darkness of my bedroom. Writing. Finally. I’m not even touching on what has happened yet still I feel lighter. As I type each of these words into sentences I feel the room it’s making inside. The walls are moving back and I can almost breath again. I was nearly full and close to popping but now – now I can keep going. I’ve made space simply by getting the words outside of me.
For me that’s what writing truly is. A release – a way for me to empty out and make room to continue on. There are times when life is moving so fast that my feelings, emotions and words – oh the words – they get to be so many that I simply need to let them out! That’s when I have to write. I need to. Whether those first few sentences are right doesn’t matter what does matter is the write of it all.
Who knows? I may never write all the potential posts I had in my head for the past few weeks BUT I’m writing. They may not be the stories I’ve penned within but the words are still flowing and for me that is a breakthrough in itself. I am excited for this not because what I have to say is oh so important but because what I have to say needs to be said and by simply sitting down tonight (or laying…lol) i have broken through whatever was blocking me and now I look forward to
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I needed to read this. I have been feeling the exact same way. Writing for me is just a whole other world that I can escape to when my real life is crazy. It's busy, always running kids around to their activities… It's just a nice thing that's all my own. 🙂
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Oh. I’m so glad you came by. It can be a horrible feeling when you can’t find release in a way you normally can. I am so happy to have it though and get past that feeling of being blocked.
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What a great post, Tiffany! I have definitely been feeling the same way. With the chaos of every day and just going blank once I sit down to write, it can get frustrating. I think that I just need to calm the chaos in my head! Hope you are having a great weekend!
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This is where I was a few weeks ago. It took a few posts to get back in the groove. Hopefully, I am back. It's amazing that sometimes you don't need to say what you thought you did. Good for you girl. 🙂
Yup. This is a discipline issue. Elizabeth Gilbert posted "Advice for writers" on her website this week, and it was all about loving yourself (not letting those voices in your head dissuade you) and then getting back to work. I blogged about it this week (#irony). It was much-needed advice.
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It can be at times. Mine was more of funk I think. That sounds like a great resource though – I will have to check it out. It seems like there are a few of us who were in similar places…very ironic 🙂
I have felt the same way so many times! I guess that is why I'm a blogger. 🙂 I used to be a journalist…so I didn't travel too far from my college studies.
I think that is why I’m a Blogger as well…I wanted to be a writer so bad in High School and even College but then life happened. Well now my life happening is helping me to write 🙂
Writing is seriously a bit of therapy. I need to write so much more, I need to for sure get back to my journals.
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Yes. There is something about letting go of different feelings through words. Definitely therapeutic. Me too! I have neglected my journal writing way too much!
I think writing is a little bit of everything…therapy, a hobby, and a passion. While I love writing and blogging, sometimes it feels like a chore and that's when I take a break. My break just may be a day or two or it may be a whole week but I always come back feeling refreshed! I always have tons of blog ideas in the notes section of my phone and I wish I could get to every single one of them and maybe I will…one day. 🙂
It definitely can be Alexis. I think that may be why I love it so much – it can be anything you need for whatever situation. I do think the \’break\’ gave me a bit of a jumpstart so maybe it wasn\’t so and after all… 🙂
great post! Writing is definitely a little bit of everything for me. I really need to get better about writing down my ideas as I have them because by the time I sit down to write I've usually forgotten what I wanted to write about in the first place.
I would have to say writing is pure therapy for me. It also allows me to document things I would normally forget and it's priceless to return to those posts or notes/letters months (or even years) down the road.
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Oh yes the ability to capture memories is so priceless. There are things I go back and read and I know without those words I would have forgotten the moment.
Thank goodness I am not the only one who this happens to, the other day i was caught off guard as I was thinking this would make a great post, I was busted for not being in the moment!!! Darn it, and there went the post and the thought too. I promise this year to write, but also be in the moment and more patient. With that I am hoping the writing will flow 🙂 Good luck mate!!!!
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I completely agree, writing is such an escape for me as well. It doesn't even have to be something for my blog. I can escape just by making lists and notes in my notebooks. It's wonderful.
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I need to start writing a bit more away from the Blog…I think that may help me as well. Get back to my journals a bit more. It is truly wonderful Alyssa! Thanks so much for coming by today 🙂
Therapy. Yes, writing can definitely heal the soul. You’re right. Sometime we need to take our writing from being an obligation (for our sites, etc.) to simply being…
I love this post, T. Sometimes is so hard to just get going but worth it when you do. Glad you locked yourself in your room and made it happen!
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Writing is definitely a release for me! A way to say things that I don't know how to vocalize, but can put them into text. I love it!
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Exactly! believe it or not I am not a very vocal person…writing comes so much easier to me than telling someone something. As a teen, I would always write a letter to someone I had a conflict with because I felt my words could express things so much better without my voice or my emotions to get in the way.
Words for me are a little bit of everything. Therapy, thoughts, lessons, love and so much more. I can definitely relate to the unexpected break in writing. Sometimes not writing is just as good too.
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That\’s awesome. words have so many different roles to everyone as an individual. It is truly a personal form of expression. i think that way me part of why I love them so. The same words spoken, written and expressed by different people can have totally different meanings and impacts and I feel that is the biggest gift of all I gain from writing and using words.
I have been feeling this lately! I've had a couple of posts to write about a recent trip, but I was so overwhelmed with all the pictures I needed to edit and all the things I wanted to say, that I didn't even feel I could start. When I feel like this, I often just sit down at the kitchen table with notebook paper and pen and just get started without distractions!
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Really? I think we all reach this point at some time or another. The key is to not stay there too long. Yes! Sometimes getting back to the raw materials…pen paper and you…can definitely help!
Writing is a bit of both; a passion and a hobby, let's call it a passionate hobby. I've written one fiction novella (available on Amazon) and had a great time writing it. It was a bit easier than penning posts everyday. Penning daily posts takes a lot of time and research which sometimes sucks the "fun" out of it.
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I can definitely see how writing can have a dual identity in our lives. Especially as Bloggers. That is such an amazing accomplishment! Yes, I find free writing is so much more relaxing. There are times when the formality of posts can be a bit of a downer of sort…LOL I struggle when I have so many words and then need to find an image or whatever to match up with it…lOL
Writing to me is more of a hobby. I don't really get to the point that I need to write this down now! I have had those moments before but it's few and far between. Blogging is my hobby and love writing for it, but I know I'm not the best and I do it anyway.
Hobby is good. I think writing for any reason is always good. You get to share a bit of who you are even if that is more of a want than a need 🙂 I think you are a very good writer Ashley…because you allow yourself to show through your words. I love your Weekly Intention posts for that very reason. You show that you live your life on purpose, with goals and intent. Love that!
It's so important to find that time, and it's not easy. I would say that writing to me is an expression, hobby, and passion…..depending on what i"m writing about.
It isn’t but it is definitely needed. I like that, you’re right sometimes what writing means to you can depend on what you’re writing about. Tanks so much for coming by 🙂
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