3 Flights, 2 1/2 Kids and 1 Act of Appreciation

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That moment. It was here. It was time. We were going to see Him. Hubby, Daddy, Friend…we missed him beyond words and it was time to be together again. 3 flights, 2 1/2 kids and 1 act of appreciation brought us together. Yet the journey to getting their wasn’t easy.

He had left nearly 4 months earlier the Orders were issued. He was being stationed in Hawaii. We had to move away from family, friends and everyone we knew. I was not even 5 months pregnant, had my 10 year old and my 9 month old there was school, packing, etc. We couldn’t go yet. I had to stay. He would have to send for us in a few months. I can’t do this! I had to do this! I could do this! We could do this. But how?

I’m not even sure today how we made it through those 3 months. We passed the time. We went to every activity I could find: art classes, tae kwon do, plays, dance classes, the park…anything to help them keep their minds off Daddy being away and keep me busy enough to not loose it. It worked. The time passed – days, weeks then months and soon the day was here. He called that night and said we had flights the next morning! We were going to Hawaii!

It would take us 3 flights to get there nearly 5  hours for each one. I was nearly 8 months pregnant and large to put it nicely. I had myself and 2 kids to get through this travel nightmare and I had never flown more than a hour away and that was by myself! Okay, out came my big girl panties and all my planning skills. We made it! We were walking for nearly 30 minutes. Where was he? Did I go to the wrong place? A woman approached me and my kids:

“Are you military?” 

Umm Yes. Well my husband is. I’m his wife, we’re meeting him.

“Thank you so much for your sacrifice and  your husband’s service”

She had placed a bit of money in my hand, hugged me and walked on. Less than a minute of interaction. Yet she didn’t even know what she’d done. I was on the verge of loosing it because I couldn’t find where to meet my Hubby, my kids were exhausted and my preggo emotions were running wild. Yet that one moment, that act of appreciation and the hug helped me pull it together. We walked on. I found the him and we had that moment. The Reunion. He was there and so were we. We were a whole family again.

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The small acts of thanks and appreciation to a military family can mean so much more than what it takes to offer them. This month and beyond taking the time to say thanks to our Heroes is so important. I am so proud to be a part of #ChevySalutes and their efforts to appreciate our Active, Veteran and Retired Military and their Families. They are working to help moments like these happen.

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This month we place a spotlight on our Military Heroes through Military Appreciation Month but don’t let it stop when the month ends. That woman who approached me probably has no idea how much of an impact she made not with her token but with her heartfelt emotion but her words. Her simple act helped me make it those last few moments and beyond.

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11 responses to “3 Flights, 2 1/2 Kids and 1 Act of Appreciation”

  1. amovingstory Avatar
    amovingstory

    I wish I could hug the lady who took pause and thanked you and your family. I cannot imagine flying anywhere at 8 months pregnant–I was HUGE–let alone flying with kids! But, seeing your husband was worth it, I know!!! Thank you and your family for all that you do for our country. This was an awesome post! <3 Kim
    My recent post What Kind Of Family Are We, St. Joseph? We’re Blue Star and Hooah.

    1. MrsTee Avatar

      Yes! I wish I could find her and let her know how much that meant to me. It was an adventure to say the least..my daughter was 9 months and my son 10…change pampers and trying to fit in small bathroom that far along was a mess! LOL Thanks so much 😀

  2. dishofdailylife Avatar
    dishofdailylife

    The military life is not an easy one. That was a lovely gesture from that woman and I can imagine how it must have touched your heart! Acts of kindness like that go a long way!
    My recent post Refreshing Summer Drinks for a Trop50 #GirlsNightIn (Plus a Raspberry Acai Granita)

    1. MrsTee Avatar

      No and I had to learn that as I went. She was definitely a great encouragement and a time I really needed it.

  3. Mrs.AOK Avatar

    Oh my gosh, what a sweet lately! Sometimes kindness comes at the right time. It's a tough job being a military wife, as they say "it's the toughest job in the military" It's nice to be appreciated.
    Thankfully, I never had to fly alone anywhere, I don't know how you did it, but you did it!
    I remember picking my honey up for RR, before he came in the airport, a lady came and thanked my daughter and I. She had me crying… it was nice to feel appreciated.
    XOXO

    1. MrsTee Avatar

      She truly was and I\’m not sure she will ever understand why she did for me that day.

      You\’re right, a military spouse has a tough job and I underestimate what it takes. Thankfully I have a patient husband and all I his support.

      The acts of kindness and appreciation from others goes so far. I am always grateful.

      Oh I was so dated but when you have to do it you just do it LOL…

  4. perfecttenn Avatar
    perfecttenn

    I can imagine how you felt! Its the smalls things that count. As a veteran myself, I always appreciate when other appreciate and thank me for my service. You and your husband make a lovely couple btw! I know he's your hero. 🙂
    My recent post Gingham &amp; Roses Link Up &amp; Social Media Hop {21} #GinghamRoses

    1. MrsTee Avatar

      It was a day for sure…LOL She came up to me right when I was on the verge of giving in to my emotions. I am so grateful for her even now. Thank You…yes he truly is 🙂

  5. Sonya K Avatar
    Sonya K

    I’m sure that was a really tough day. I could not imagine traveling with my two kids by myself.

    1. MrsTee Avatar

      It was overwhelming and my first ‘by myself’ adventure. I’m so grateful for the kindness of strangers that day, she wasn’t the only one.

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